Byk nak cerita, tp mcm malas nak ngadap blog. Baca blog org lain tu ok lg, tp nak ngadap blog sendiri mcm, urghh... X tahu knp. Sindrom ini jrg2 berlaku.
I guess a lot of it is linked psl our life routine dah berubah sket since last week. Alhamdulillah, Hubs started his new desk job 2 Fridays ago. He now works from 8.30 am - 5.30 pm, five days a week. This means that segala urusan2 menjemput dan menghantar Aisyah ke school jatuh sepenuhnya ke bahu aku. Walau bagaimana pon, aku bersyukur sbb Aisyah dah 3 thn, so dah dpt grant utk nursery for 15 hours a week. However, the remaining hours (yg over 15 jam itu), kena la keluar duit poket sendiri. X termasuk ongkos staying over for lunch lg (20 pounds a week). Campur duit additional session, lunch money, snack money, mmg boleh membotakkan, tp pikir2, kena jg invest sbb aku pon nak kena pikir psl siapkan kerja aku jgk. Plus she enjoys it so much, aku rasa mmg syukur lah arrangment ni kena dgn dia.
She now goes to nursery from 8.45 am- 3.15 pm hari2, except Friday. Dgn bersekolah jg, rutin tido dia dah jd stable, tido awal, bgn awal. Around 7 am dah bgn sendiri, breakfast, and then I drop her off. Seboleh mungkin aku cuba start ke lab right after that, sbb ptg nya dah nak kena pick her up. But that's the best part of the day la, menjemput2 ni hehe.
Balik umah I serve her lunch/snack (dia dah mkn morning snack and lunch, tp tiap2 kali balik mesti lapar sgt2 dia). Tgk aje lah gmbr2 ni, lapar skali. Then she takes a nap, so bole la sambung wat kerja sket2. By the time she wakes up, ayahanda dia pon dah balik, and I got to prepare dinner plak.
Bcoz we all need to be out the door early in the morning dah skang, we tend to have dinner early and sleep early and wake up early Fuh.. tiba2 rasa mcm org tua2 la. Gone are the days lepak2 sampai larut mlm tgk TV, or tido lps Subuh, or mkn mlm pkl 10 pm mcm pernah satu ketika dulu masa x abis2 perahsan baru kawen. Hopefully, this new arrangement membawa keberkatan and quality hidup yg lebih kpd kami semua.
I now blog mlm2, after Aisyah dah tido. But I can't stay up for long jg, ngantuk la. Okay better pen off. Just nak bgtau why I've been distant from the blogworld these few days.... Will resume to normal dah kot lps ni, once dah get the hang of this new life routine...
Yg kurg syok nya, bcoz Aisyah goes to a public school, term time dia ikut waktu sekolah. Dulu masa di nursery private, cuti hanya la seminggu utk Krismas aje. Now, ada byk plak cuti. For instance, esok lusa ni cuti. Then from 24-30 Oct cuti seminggu half term plak. Aku rasa bole la kot try wat keja kat umah, but now baru terfikir, kalo esok2 kan anak2 kita dah sekolah, and then waktu cuti sekolah, tp kita masih kena kerja, diaorg duk mana eh? X kan tinggal kat umah aje? Or x kan kita cuti sebulan? Or x kan kita angkut gi opis ek? Kalo ada sesapa yg anak2 dah besar sket or masa kanak2 dia mak dia kerja tolong put a light in this situation for me bole? Bcoz I grew up in a home yg mana my mom full time housemaker, sentiasa ada rumah, so mcm x de nmpk solution la camne. Summer camp? Rumah transit? Any ideas?
8 comments:
noris, slalunya parent yg bkeje 9-5, time cuti skolah hntr ank2 umah pengasuh... bg kak ty xde mslh sbb kak ty cikgu. anak cuti kak ty pun cuti.... :)
aah.. usually people send their kids to transit house tu..atau umah pengasuh laaa
cuti panjang, hantar blk kampung la kot..hihi..
lady esma: tu la k ty... mcm nak kena tukar profession je. betul2 rasa mcm nak quit kerja plak. kesian tgk anak kena tggal.. T_T
diyana: x nak x kena cari jgk pengasuh. i guess for miki bagus jg dah start2 dari awal dgn mama rose, kalo x de apa2 masalah, leh continue well into his school years :) kalo ada next2 adik aisyah, maybe nak cari pengasuh jg lah, instead of start nursery so early. terlupa plak mak sendiri pon dulu ngasuh anak org jgk, 4-5 org skali jaga hehe
miss interpreted: ada terfikir jgk, but kesian kt my parents kot menyusahkan. amik maid is another option lah kot ek, not only do they help with h/work tp time cuti sek someone will be at home jg. isu nya, dpt maid yg bagus or hampeh je la. and sediakan duit, of coz huhu... dilema2
kecik2 dulu ore duk dgn pengasuh la kalu time ma gi sekolah, tp mujur jugop ma kijo cikgu jah so 7-2 jah di sekolah. bilo ore dh besar, ma hntr adik2 kat rumoh org jah then bilo ore dh balik sekolah ore gi amik adik di umoh pengasuh tu.
tp tu la, dulu pengasuh import ore alik siam..lo ni sumo bibik jah..payoh nk cayo sikit. kalu buleh hok molek gak, mujur. tp kalu buleh hok karut gop, wat sakit hati kito pulok deh
Good to hear that everybody is doing well with the new routine... esp. for aisyah... ;-)
Len kali noris mungkin boleh upah maid, and since rumah mak noris dekat serdang je, mungkin masa office hour, boleh htr maid kt rumah mak...so, mak noris boleh monitor maid tu bt keje betul ke tak...
hehe...mcm yg hizma slalu bt dulu... ;-)
yatie: molek doh hok ma yatie buat tu. zaman mulo senang, ore alik siam pon x dok kito dgr cerito hok pelik2, tp hok alik sbrg nun, payah nok kato. hok malas wat kjio tu byk dgr, x masuk hok curi, wat hal ngan boipren, hok gi bahe anok2 majikan... haiii seriau
lia: bole jgk gitu. ada jgk terpikir, tp saya kalo bole malas nak ada live-in maid. mcm2 pe'el org nak kena tolerate. kalo dpt daytime maid alangkah bagusnya
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